Tips for Practitioners: Surrogate EFT – Part 3 (of 3)

Part 3 (of 3): Use these 3 Simple Effective Steps of Surrogate EFT for clients that challenge you

Surrogate EFT is great for practitioners that have encountered “difficult or challenging” clients. It is an excellent way to heal the doubts that can creep in when you feel you have not been as effective as you would have liked to be. Or when the client has not responded well to any of your approaches.  Or that in the middle of a session things take an unwanted and unexpected turn.

Step 1: Tap on your own issues and feelings regarding the situation/person/child

As you tune in to these emotions, notice any related specific events or memories that come to your consciousness/ awareness for you to heal with EFT now.

For example:

Even though it was a really difficult session, and I do not know if I helped them and I feel______ /it reminds me of________, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though he/she was really difficult for me to work with, I struggled, and I do not know what they think about me; I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Even though it was my worst nightmare and I feel like an absolute failure, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

 

Step 2: Tap on the person’s/child’s issues and feelings, and anything else your intuition brings to your awareness

For example:

Even though the client was ________, I deeply and completely love and accept him/her/them.

Even though he/she had so many issues and problems and I could feel their _______ ,I deeply and completely love and accept him/her/them.

Even though they were not responsive, that is what I think, and I deeply and completely love and accept him/her/them.

 

Step 3: Gratitude Tap while visualising that the person is supported, nurtured and taken care of by the universal forces of Love, Peace and Truth

For example:

Even though this is what happened, Thank you God/Universe/Love/Peace for this learning opportunity.

Even though I was shaken by the experience, thank you God/Universe/Love/Peace for taking care of this person. I trust __________ is being supported and nurtured for their highest good.

Even though he/she/they have been scarred/scared, I can see them surrounded by love and light.  I am sorry, forgive me, thank you, I love you.  I am grateful to the energy of love and peace that fills us.

 

To summarise

Here are the 3 Steps for Surrogate EFT that I use:

Step 1:

Tap on your own issues and feelings regarding the situation/person/child.

Even though I feel.... about this I Love and Accept Myself

Step 2:

Tap on the person’s/child’s issues and feelings and anything else your intuition brings to your awareness.

Even though he/she feels.... about this I Love and Accept Them.

Step 3:

Gratitude Tap while visualising that the person is supported, nurtured and taken care of by the universal forces of Love, Peace and Truth.

Even though this.... Thank you, God/ Universe/ Love/ Peace, for....

 

Love, Joy and Infinite Gratitude,

Ranjana

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Ranjana Appoo is a wellness educator dedicated to emotional freedom and spiritual intelligence.